Adopting the kink lifestyle wasn't something I thought about ever. I have been a pretty sexual and sensual person since I was aware of sex, in a manner of speaking. My DD loves to hear about my adventures in Playland and surely love listening to his!
The most I knew of kink and BDSM was what I had seen in some moves or jokes, maybe a few books here and there that had some light stuff or mentions. It wasn't until I met a gentleman who I will call my Mentor that I even really thought about it and it wasn't until I met my DD that I really understood it.
Neither myself or my DD knew much about BDSM. We apparently are both very kinky, but that's not the same thing. I knew in a couple of dates what I felt inside. I just didn't have a word for it.
My DD (he's the Naughty Daddie in Naughty's kitten) gives me feelings that I have never felt before and I adore and love it. We give each other the strength to be strong, but we can also be each other's weakness. That's not a bad thing though. It just shows us how connected we are.
When we did the research and found out there was actually a lifestyle for what we were feeling, we went through trials and errors of course. Right now, we have settled into what and who we are, but that doesn't mean we won't change more. That's one of the very fun things about BDSM, the fact that there is no right or wrong way to be in my opinion. There are always folks who will insist that you have a dynamic only in one way and that's that, but how can you grow and discover who you and your partner are if you only play...one way, live one way, think one way?
We are in a D/s..particularly Daddy/middle girl, but we also love to swing and are exhibitionists and voyeurs. There are some who frown on this and some who embrace it. I enjoy what we have since it has allowed me to meet interesting people on an intimate level that I would not normally have. Once you have seen someone naked, it kind of instantly breaks the ice LOL!
My DD and I are always looking for ways to have safe fun. Toys, roles play, swinging, photos and video...we enjoy it all. I am waiting on when we can have more free time to explore, but until then we will have what kinky fun we can!
Jubilee Johns (She/Her/Hers)
Creator of Middles Online Clubhouse
Jubilee has been writing her own creative works for more than 30 years. She has been in the BDMS lifestyle since 2017 and has loved every moment of it with her Daddy Dome Naughty Daddie
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