I started this magazine in the hopes of giving other middles a voice and place, but then forgot to tell you about ME! So here I am Jubilee Johns!
Tell us about you and where you are from.
I am a single mom (born in 1981) who is engaged to my Dom, Poppi (He/Him/His). I enjoy things like arts and crafts, tech work, and 70's music. Though my favorite music is 80's hair bands. I am from the United States and identify a a bi-curious female (She/Her/Hers).
What drew you to the lifestyle?
I wasn't in the lifestyle when me and my Dom first met. Neither was he. In fact, neither of us knew about it, but we knew that there was something different about our relationship than previous ones we have had. I remember on one of our first dates, we went to a sex shop and he told me a could pick out anything, and the thing I chose was a thin black collar with pink rhinestones on it! I had NO idea what is symbolized, but it just felt appropriate for him to buy it for me. I am sure the people at the register knew, which explained there looks/smiles.
What keeps you here?
I wasn't in the lifestyle when me and my Dom first met. Neither was he. In fact, neither of us knew about it, but we knew that there was something different about our relationship than previous ones we have had. I remember on one of our first dates, we went to a sex shop and he told me a could pick out anything, and the thing I chose was a thin black collar with pink rhinestones on it! I had NO idea what is symbolized, but it just felt appropriate for him to buy it for me. I am sure the people at the register knew, which explained there looks/smiles.
When/How did you discover you were a middle?
I discovered I was a middle by accident. Well, I always know I was a middle, I just didn't know what it was called. I came a cross middles when I saw a post that had a listing of ABDL, littles and then middles! I realized I was labeling myself as a little incorrectly and explained a lot of my feelings of not fitting in when I was in chatroom, forums, or looking online at Instagram etc.
What kids of activities do you normally enjoy?
I normally enjoy watching series when I have the time, hanging out with my kids, using my planner, crafting, listening to music, going to concerts and such.
What kinds of activities do you enjoy when you a feeling middle?
When I am feeling middle, I want iced coffee lol. I like to be more affectionate towards my Dom, but also a little more snarky and sarcastic. I get into very artist and creative zones. I might decide to have an impromptu dance party with he kids. I look for more stickers and marker and things I don't need but really want for my planner LOL
What would you like to say to your MOC people?
I would like to let my MOC people know that they are not alone in their journey. There are many people who identify as middles, but aren't even aware. They look online to find where they fit in BDSM, but mainly see subs and littles represented. Just know, you are NOT being a bad little, you just might be an awesome middle!
Johns (She/Her/Hers)
Creator of Middles Online Clubhouse
Jubilee has been writing her own creative works for more than 30 years. She has been in the BDMS lifestyle since 2017 and has loved every moment of it with her Daddy Dom Naughty Daddie
WordPress: Naughty's kitten Thoughts
Twitter: @JubileeJohns
Facebook: Jub Johns
Instagram: @Jubilee_Johns
MeWe: Jubilation Lee
FetLife: naughtys-kitten
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